Aries24
08-25-2016, 12:54 AM
Hello,
I find myself anxious that I will never marry. I'm 24 and have yet to even have a girlfriend. I just don't think I'm the type of person who can be happy alone. The thing is, I know it's my own "fault" that I'm alone. I put "fault" in quotes because while it's technically the correct word, I don't mean it in a negative way. I'm very picky and particular about what type of women I like. I've thought a lot about this and honestly don't see myself loosening up on what I'm looking for. I don't want to marry just to marry. I want to marry someone I actually want to marry. I worry I'll never find the right girl. My anxiety about it isn't as bad as it used to be (it used to keep me up at night), but it still takes a toll on me.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for here, honestly. Ways to not worry about it, perhaps. Honestly even advice on meeting girls, though I'm not sure this is an appropriate forum for that.
I find myself anxious that I will never marry. I'm 24 and have yet to even have a girlfriend. I just don't think I'm the type of person who can be happy alone. The thing is, I know it's my own "fault" that I'm alone. I put "fault" in quotes because while it's technically the correct word, I don't mean it in a negative way. I'm very picky and particular about what type of women I like. I've thought a lot about this and honestly don't see myself loosening up on what I'm looking for. I don't want to marry just to marry. I want to marry someone I actually want to marry. I worry I'll never find the right girl. My anxiety about it isn't as bad as it used to be (it used to keep me up at night), but it still takes a toll on me.
I'm not sure what I'm looking for here, honestly. Ways to not worry about it, perhaps. Honestly even advice on meeting girls, though I'm not sure this is an appropriate forum for that.