Ponder
07-11-2016, 03:52 PM
Eliminate complaining in your life...once and for all. http://i181.photobucket.com/albums/x30/davekyn/PLAY_zps14pxmhjo.png (https://player.fm/series/an-uncluttered-life/aul-151-eliminate-complaining-in-your-lifeonce-and-for-all)
It's OK, you can still dump. It's just knowing how to, why and when to. I find it's so easy to keep complaining without actually taking the steps to do anything about it. At some point we have to grow up and take responsibility for ourselves, otherwise we will always be crying for rest of our lives. If you want to create a positive routine that gets us the results we are looking for, then we have to stop complaining and start looking for resolutions.
This includes no longer taking on board other peoples complaints. "Really? You told me that last time we spoke. What have you done to make things different?"
The problem can be so bad, that when complainers see positive interaction like so, that they close the door and look for another place were they can continue complaining. Once you understand just how complaining contributes to brain damage, then you might feel the urge to stop doing it. :)
Are you ready to stop? Hit the play button if so and let us know what you think. I'm over all the whining in my family, so have resorted to seeking out positive peer support as my response to others wallowing in self pitty. As a result, I can continue to be of benefit to others when they are ready to help themselves. In the mean time, I can continue keeping myself afloat doing the things I enjoy.
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To Download → Once the play button takes you to the website, just Hit Ctl F → then type → "Complain" → then hit the next icon/down arrow five times to find the podcast listed → then hit the 3 dots ... and select download.
It's OK, you can still dump. It's just knowing how to, why and when to. I find it's so easy to keep complaining without actually taking the steps to do anything about it. At some point we have to grow up and take responsibility for ourselves, otherwise we will always be crying for rest of our lives. If you want to create a positive routine that gets us the results we are looking for, then we have to stop complaining and start looking for resolutions.
This includes no longer taking on board other peoples complaints. "Really? You told me that last time we spoke. What have you done to make things different?"
The problem can be so bad, that when complainers see positive interaction like so, that they close the door and look for another place were they can continue complaining. Once you understand just how complaining contributes to brain damage, then you might feel the urge to stop doing it. :)
Are you ready to stop? Hit the play button if so and let us know what you think. I'm over all the whining in my family, so have resorted to seeking out positive peer support as my response to others wallowing in self pitty. As a result, I can continue to be of benefit to others when they are ready to help themselves. In the mean time, I can continue keeping myself afloat doing the things I enjoy.
__________________________________________________ ___________
To Download → Once the play button takes you to the website, just Hit Ctl F → then type → "Complain" → then hit the next icon/down arrow five times to find the podcast listed → then hit the 3 dots ... and select download.