Saft1980
11-26-2015, 03:15 AM
Hi all,
I have been trying to get some wins on the board for some time now. Most of my life really. I don't really feel like I have achieved anything to write home about. I feel I have this overwhelming anxiety toward failure and criticism and rejection. It's something that has dominated every major decision I have ever made and as a result has prevented me from making those big decisions and instead opting for a more safe and secure alternative.
I guess the question I have to ask all of you is, can this overbearing anxiety be resolved with the right motivation. Is it the case that I just haven't fount it yet. Is there a big enough stick and carrot out there that would drive me toward action and let go of the fear and if so is it something that I can create for myself so that I can be self motivated. I've tried looking for the why's that make going after what I want worth breaking through the anxiety. But i can't seem to find answers that are bigger than it.
Thanks
Jesse
I have been trying to get some wins on the board for some time now. Most of my life really. I don't really feel like I have achieved anything to write home about. I feel I have this overwhelming anxiety toward failure and criticism and rejection. It's something that has dominated every major decision I have ever made and as a result has prevented me from making those big decisions and instead opting for a more safe and secure alternative.
I guess the question I have to ask all of you is, can this overbearing anxiety be resolved with the right motivation. Is it the case that I just haven't fount it yet. Is there a big enough stick and carrot out there that would drive me toward action and let go of the fear and if so is it something that I can create for myself so that I can be self motivated. I've tried looking for the why's that make going after what I want worth breaking through the anxiety. But i can't seem to find answers that are bigger than it.
Thanks
Jesse