Kellie
11-06-2015, 10:59 PM
Hi guys, I haven't been on this forum for a long time now, not because i didn't need to but I got caught up with life but right now I really need to talk to people who understand.
I am 19 years old and I have had severe anxiety for a few years now. I'm at a bit of a stand still with my life right now as I am on a benefit to get money to pay mum money to have me. It suits me fine but i cant stay on it forever, even though it is ideal for me. People are constantly on my case about getting a job however I know that its just not something I am near ready to do. I have never had a job, nor have any experience and I wanted to know how a lot of you deal with Jobs and how many of you don't have jobs and how it affects you and your lives. Also my mother keeps telling me she understands all this but every time we talk about my anxiety it turns into a fight. She keeps telling me that "getting a job will be the making of you" but I keep telling her that's not how it is. I don't know. I just need to talk to people who understand because I am really over this..
Help! x
I am 19 years old and I have had severe anxiety for a few years now. I'm at a bit of a stand still with my life right now as I am on a benefit to get money to pay mum money to have me. It suits me fine but i cant stay on it forever, even though it is ideal for me. People are constantly on my case about getting a job however I know that its just not something I am near ready to do. I have never had a job, nor have any experience and I wanted to know how a lot of you deal with Jobs and how many of you don't have jobs and how it affects you and your lives. Also my mother keeps telling me she understands all this but every time we talk about my anxiety it turns into a fight. She keeps telling me that "getting a job will be the making of you" but I keep telling her that's not how it is. I don't know. I just need to talk to people who understand because I am really over this..
Help! x