Terrifyed my friend hates me?

[puppycutecute6303]

I'm going to high school this year, straight after the summer break, and when we went on a 'trial day' I met this nice girl who I'd never seen before. Me and my best friend started talking to her, and after a while I was petrified that she might like my best friend more than she likes me. At the end of the day she gave me her phone number, and I texted her right away. It took her three days to reply and all she put was "Hi (my name) yeah it's (her name)" and then she put "sorry". A few days later, I tried to find her on social media, but I couldn't find her so I texted her again, saying I couldn't find her username. All she replied with was "what's urs" and when I put my username in i also wrote "Looking forward to seeing you after the summer break". That was THREE WEEKS AGO, why hasn't she replied? I'm really worried that she doesn't like me. Help?

[Kuma]

You should not worry about this so much. You will see her some time and you can initiate a conversation and see if a friendship develops. If it does, great. If not, I am sure you will meet other nice people in school and have good friends.

Also, keep in mind that many people in the world have very serious problems -- poverty, cancer, deaths in their family, job loss, etc. So if one person does not text you back -- even if you like that person -- it is not the worst thing in the world. Keep your perspective.

[MainerMikeBrown]

Just be aware that if she doesn't like you, that doesn't mean you are any less of a person. Feeling good about yourself shouldn't depend on whether she likes you or not.

[greightful]

Just be aware that if she doesn't like you, that doesn't mean you are any less of a person. Feeling good about yourself shouldn't depend on whether she likes you or not.

I second that. Don't worry about it. You'll meet people in life that like you, and some people that don't. I would focus on people that respond to you instead of wasting energy on those that do not.