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Bartt
07-14-2015, 05:26 PM
Hello everyone, my name is Bartt. I have had anxiety for as long as I could remember. It had inhibited me from doing a lot of things. Just recently, at the end of this last school semester, I applied for a job, which I got. I jumped right in without even thinking about it. When I was fully into the job, I had a horrible boss that made my life a living hell. Everyday she would look for the tiniest thing I would do wrong, and call me out on it. Whenever something went wrong at the store, I was the one who caught all the blame, not anyone else. Also, she treated me like I had an IQ of 45.
My boss routinely did these things, and somehow, I stuck it out for two and a half months. That was until yesterday, when I decided to call it quits. My boss told me that she wished I would do a two weeks notice, but I didn't. She then yelled at me on the phone, telling me that I was showing my true colors for quitting like that, and throwing a whole bunch of flak my way. That is the entire reason I quit so abruptly, because of her and how she treated me at work. Should I be upset about this? I have taken a lot back on my shoulders before, but this has just made me feel like I want to rip all my hair out.

Vikki Long
07-14-2015, 06:32 PM
Hi, Bartt. So sorry to hear about your boss however it something I heard of before. But you quiting was the right thing to do. I don't think I could of stuck it out for as long as you did mind. If she wants to be in a mood for you quitting let her. There nothing she can do about it. Were all human and people like her need to remember thast , instead of treating staff like crap. You did the right thing and don't let her tell you any different

Bartt
07-14-2015, 07:02 PM
Thank you so much for understanding. It was making me so miserable going in there everyday only to be torn down over and over again. I just felt like it wasn't worth that kind of situation anymore.

Vikki Long
07-14-2015, 07:11 PM
Its not worth it. You as a person will end up suffering mentally as well physically. And would end worse than what you are. I've had many jobs. Some better than others, but one I walked out of cause they just gave me that much Hassel I knew i was going down hill. So I left and was out of a job for 6 months. But it was worth it cause I didn't Get abuse or anything