Maggie May
12-22-2005, 05:55 AM
I want to share something that I learned in a CBT class that is a good first step for managing anxiety. It's not the cure, at all, but it's just a nice tool to have in your toolbelt that you can use. I have been gathering tools for my toolbelt for years now and it is nice to have a variety of helpful tools.
Here's the tool. It's not the only way to do this, just one way.
1. Put your hand on your stomach.
2. Take a slow, deep breath. Make sure your stomach pushes out against your hand when you breathe in, that's a sign that you're taking a nice deep breath, not just a teeny one into the top of your lungs. Keep your hand on your stomach.
3. Hold your breath for four seconds. Count them in your head, or out loud if you're alone or with someone who understands. "One one thousand, two one thousand, three one thousand, four one thousand." Keep your hand on your stomach.
4. Exhale slowly through pursed lips, like you're blowing out candles on a birthday cake. Blow out nice and evenly, not all at once. Try to exhale for as long as you can, until you feel your stomach deflating and then feel the muscles contract as you blow out the very last of the breath.
Do you feel a little bit better? The unpleasant physical and psychological symptoms of anxiety are caused, at least in part, by adrenaline. When people exhale, their bodies secrete a chemical called acetylcholine. Acetylcholine burns up adrenaline. Less adrenaline in your system means less anxious symptoms, at least for the short term. The longer you exhale, the more acetylcholine you secrete.
Acetylcholine and it's calming effects is why breathing is an essential part of meditation, yoga, pilates, tai chi and many other calming practices.
It's also one of the reasons exercise is so good for anxiety. You release adrenaline when you exercise, but your body is using it up as fast as it's secreted, so you feel more calm. Plus, you're exhaling so much from the extertion, you're secreting a lot of acetylcholine, so you're extra relaxed.
You can do it anytime, but doing it at the first sign of anxiety is best. Five minutes of calmative breathing first thing in the morning can be very helpful for people who usually wake up anxious, and you can do it at night for as long as it takes to get to sleep.
With a little practice, you can do it anywhere without anyone knowing. It's always available, you don't need to see a doctor to use it, it's not addictive, it has no side effects, and it's free! ;)
I hope it helps, even if it's just a little bit.
Maggie
Here's the tool. It's not the only way to do this, just one way.
1. Put your hand on your stomach.
2. Take a slow, deep breath. Make sure your stomach pushes out against your hand when you breathe in, that's a sign that you're taking a nice deep breath, not just a teeny one into the top of your lungs. Keep your hand on your stomach.
3. Hold your breath for four seconds. Count them in your head, or out loud if you're alone or with someone who understands. "One one thousand, two one thousand, three one thousand, four one thousand." Keep your hand on your stomach.
4. Exhale slowly through pursed lips, like you're blowing out candles on a birthday cake. Blow out nice and evenly, not all at once. Try to exhale for as long as you can, until you feel your stomach deflating and then feel the muscles contract as you blow out the very last of the breath.
Do you feel a little bit better? The unpleasant physical and psychological symptoms of anxiety are caused, at least in part, by adrenaline. When people exhale, their bodies secrete a chemical called acetylcholine. Acetylcholine burns up adrenaline. Less adrenaline in your system means less anxious symptoms, at least for the short term. The longer you exhale, the more acetylcholine you secrete.
Acetylcholine and it's calming effects is why breathing is an essential part of meditation, yoga, pilates, tai chi and many other calming practices.
It's also one of the reasons exercise is so good for anxiety. You release adrenaline when you exercise, but your body is using it up as fast as it's secreted, so you feel more calm. Plus, you're exhaling so much from the extertion, you're secreting a lot of acetylcholine, so you're extra relaxed.
You can do it anytime, but doing it at the first sign of anxiety is best. Five minutes of calmative breathing first thing in the morning can be very helpful for people who usually wake up anxious, and you can do it at night for as long as it takes to get to sleep.
With a little practice, you can do it anywhere without anyone knowing. It's always available, you don't need to see a doctor to use it, it's not addictive, it has no side effects, and it's free! ;)
I hope it helps, even if it's just a little bit.
Maggie