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bluegreenhandshake
03-06-2015, 08:28 AM
Hi,

I just discovered this forum this morning and wanted to introduce myself. My name is Mercedes. As far as I can remember I have been suffering from anxiety, shyness, and depression. For many years I dealt with it by telling myself that it was a form of weakness. I forced myself to engage other people and felt as though I lived a normal life until last year. I had a rough year at my last job. I had a very stressful job working with the public and my new boss was very difficult to work with. The stress from work brought my anxiety and depression to a new level. I started feeling suicidal. I sought help from my primary care doctor. She recommended a certain therapist and I saw her until she felt I had made enough progress to release me. Two days ago I received a letter inviting me to complete a survey about mental health, suicide, substance abuse, etc. Apparently either my primary care doctor or the therapist provided my name to this entity without my consent. I felt completely violated. The last couple of days I've been very depressed and am having a hard time coping. Everything seems difficult to manage right now and I know its my anxiety creeping in. I know I need help but I really don't want to return to my doctor and that's why I am here. I hoping I can find ways to keep all my issues under control.

NixonRulz
03-06-2015, 01:32 PM
Hi,

I just discovered this forum this morning and wanted to introduce myself. My name is Mercedes. As far as I can remember I have been suffering from anxiety, shyness, and depression. For many years I dealt with it by telling myself that it was a form of weakness. I forced myself to engage other people and felt as though I lived a normal life until last year. I had a rough year at my last job. I had a very stressful job working with the public and my new boss was very difficult to work with. The stress from work brought my anxiety and depression to a new level. I started feeling suicidal. I sought help from my primary care doctor. She recommended a certain therapist and I saw her until she felt I had made enough progress to release me. Two days ago I received a letter inviting me to complete a survey about mental health, suicide, substance abuse, etc. Apparently either my primary care doctor or the therapist provided my name to this entity without my consent. I felt completely violated. The last couple of days I've been very depressed and am having a hard time coping. Everything seems difficult to manage right now and I know its my anxiety creeping in. I know I need help but I really don't want to return to my doctor and that's why I am here. I hoping I can find ways to keep all my issues under control.

Hi, Mercedes. That is a bit screwed up if your doc told the marketing people to send you a survey. Any chance it was just a coincidence? Don't let that trouble you because people are just jackasses sometimes.

Any time you withdraw or get angered by something someone has done, you turn all the power over to that person by letting their actions dictate your mood.

When you are anxious, the slightest thing can set you off down a bad road do try to keep that in mind. When you see yourself starting down that bad road, remind yourself that without anxiety, you would not react that way.

SO turn no power over to your anxiety. The real you is much stronger than any disorder