Please help me friends

[sudeep91]

i feel very afraid of starting any new work or business.I have a fear that someone will fight with me.
Like when i drive a car i have a fear that someone will beat me if i get a small car accident by mistake.
Also yesterday i saw a small accident.
the accident was of an auto-rickshaw with a innova car. the mistake was of innova car driver.but they are beating that poor man(auto driver) with hockey sticks.there were 2 guys in innova car who are beating that innocent auto rickshaw driver..i did n't do anything except watching how they are beating that poor man.i want to stop that but i 've got fear they will beat me too.i want to call the police but i am afraid of fighting with goons and it will become personal enmity.these fears are restricting me ,how to overcome the fear of fighting.these are restricting me to start any new job,work or business
How to deal with it.i am from delhi india and 24 year old guy

[Ponder]

Hi Sudeep,

Are you a taxi driver? I'm in Australia - people beat eachother here too. The cities seem to be worse for that kind of thing. I had a friend not long return from Delhi. He did say he saw a lot of monkeys stealing things, but not much about the bashings. Truth is though, unless your in the right position - such things go unseen within hustling, bustling places like that. Some people of more blinkered than others

You can always call the police - Just don't make it obvious. However I understand what you mean. Fear is very crippling under such circumstances.


Is it the only thing you can do - Drive - ?

How did you come into such a business?

what's your experience with it?

Are you just starting out?
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How about asking other businesses how they handle it. I am sure many others like yourself had to learn to deal with such issues in order to keep their job.

Usually those who know how to deal with difficult people are good people themselves that would be happy to share. However having said that, be prepared for those less welcoming to share help out any competition like yourself.

Perhaps your seeking out to get answers with other drivers, can be your first lesson in taking control of such fears. You might surprise yourself as the more you investigate, not only will you get answers, but will you may very well find confidence as you actively work towards overcoming such issues and to do what you would like to do.

Srry for all the questions up there. I was just curious is all.

Let us know how you go - or if you change you mind and find something else. Sometimes that's a good option too.

I wish I could be of more help.



Welcome to the forum Sudeep.

[1Bluerose68]

Too much, "Mortal Kombat" on the boob tube ey??? Surely you must have difficulty in determining fact from fiction or visa versa? Try not to pay attention to such violent things, if you see that Really happening go and get a nice dvd to watch instead.