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Stubby
12-01-2014, 12:22 AM
I'm thirteen and I have no friends to hang out with in school and outside of school. At school, everyone is polite to me but I have to no one to talk to because I have nothing in common with the people who are in my class. The guys keep on talking about football and sports and I don't watch sports. They also watch Vine videos but I'm a YouTuber. They have Xboxes but I'm a PC Gamer. I'm the only one in class that can play an instrument. The others cannot. I like to mod and paint Nerf guns (You may already know this because of my profile pic) and they don't talk about Nerf at all. During recess everyone keeps on playing basketball and they won't pass me the ball so I'm just sitting down until recess is over every time. As you can see I have NOTHING in common with them and I'm always lonely and have no friends. I have a couple of friends from the lower classes but they don't hang out with me outside of school. Events like Birthday Parties, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's are precious to me because have cousins to hang out with and I feel very happy. But you know, they always have to go and I won't be able to see them for a long time. I have a brother who has Tourette Syndrome. I tried playing with him but he always want to leave so I feel like I'm the only child. I have lots of friends on Facebook and Steam but it's boring just talking and playing games with them. Plus they're not online all the time. So there you have it. That's my information on how I'm lonely. I'm going to a very good high school next year I hope that there are people there that I have in common with. But right now I have no friends. I have no one to play and hang out with. Almost everyday I'm alone and lonely.

hunn3yy
12-01-2014, 02:08 AM
I am very different from people as well but as a youtubers you have people all over the world who share your interest. You can connect with them online. Also don't be too quick to shut out kids from school or your neighbourhood. You might find things in common with them.

danielhermanson
12-01-2014, 06:37 AM
Find yourself friends who are interested in the same subjects like you are. You said that you can play an instrument, I will suggest starting from there. Go to concerts where kids your age are playing, take music classes where you can meet people that are on the same page with you. See what are your passions and find places where people with the same passions are gathering and that is it. It is not that hard you know, you just have to try it and don't rely only on your school colleagues because the possibilities are endless.

Take care!

Stubby
12-01-2014, 09:24 AM
I am very different from people as well but as a youtubers you have people all over the world who share your interest. You can connect with them online. Also don't be too quick to shut out kids from school or your neighbourhood. You might find things in common with them. Thx. I'll try that.

Stubby
12-01-2014, 09:27 AM
Find yourself friends who are interested in the same subjects like you are. You said that you can play an instrument, I will suggest starting from there. Go to concerts where kids your age are playing, take music classes where you can meet people that are on the same page with you. See what are your passions and find places where people with the same passions are gathering and that is it. It is not that hard you know, you just have to try it and don't rely only on your school colleagues because the possibilities are endless. Take care! Your advice helped too. Thx

Stubby
12-01-2014, 09:29 AM
Find yourself friends who are interested in the same subjects like you are. You said that you can play an instrument, I will suggest starting from there. Go to concerts where kids your age are playing, take music classes where you can meet people that are on the same page with you. See what are your passions and find places where people with the same passions are gathering and that is it. It is not that hard you know, you just have to try it and don't rely only on your school colleagues because the possibilities are endless. Take care! Thx. Your advice also helped.