Luby7193
08-19-2014, 01:21 PM
Hey there :)
I've always been shy, I used to hide behind my gran's chair at her house so I didn't have to talk to other family members. It's gotten a tiiiiny bit better, but barely anything, I mean I'm still super shy around uncles and aunties and people I shouldn't be shy around. I'm 21 now and people are constantly pointing out how shy and quiet I am and write it in references/reports and things. So anyway, I got onto a PGCE primary teacher training course which starts in two weeks and I just need to shake this shyness. Whenever I'm with new people, or people my age and older, I freeze up, I feel like my words get stuck in my throat and all I can do is smile and I often can't say what I want to, plus I often blush and my heart races and I get all sweaty. I, in general, probably look like a complete freak, I just get really panicky and want to be alone. Obviously as a teacher I have to work with other people and be somewhat confident and I have lots of confident friends who can get jobs at the drop of a hat and talk to guys and make new friends so easily, whereas I find it all so hard to do.
Does anyone have any advice on how to be less shy and more confident, or maybe how you overcame social anxiety or something. It'd be so helpful, I just can;t be so horribly shy and anxious any more, I want to make new friends and do well on my course. Thank you :)
I've always been shy, I used to hide behind my gran's chair at her house so I didn't have to talk to other family members. It's gotten a tiiiiny bit better, but barely anything, I mean I'm still super shy around uncles and aunties and people I shouldn't be shy around. I'm 21 now and people are constantly pointing out how shy and quiet I am and write it in references/reports and things. So anyway, I got onto a PGCE primary teacher training course which starts in two weeks and I just need to shake this shyness. Whenever I'm with new people, or people my age and older, I freeze up, I feel like my words get stuck in my throat and all I can do is smile and I often can't say what I want to, plus I often blush and my heart races and I get all sweaty. I, in general, probably look like a complete freak, I just get really panicky and want to be alone. Obviously as a teacher I have to work with other people and be somewhat confident and I have lots of confident friends who can get jobs at the drop of a hat and talk to guys and make new friends so easily, whereas I find it all so hard to do.
Does anyone have any advice on how to be less shy and more confident, or maybe how you overcame social anxiety or something. It'd be so helpful, I just can;t be so horribly shy and anxious any more, I want to make new friends and do well on my course. Thank you :)