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tryingtobreathe
06-11-2014, 11:49 PM
So this is my life in a nutshell. I am 22 almost 23 and have been dealing with anxiety and depression since I was 13. Back then I was not aware of the anxiety just the depression and we just that it was a situation thing considering we moved halfway around the us the summer before high school. When I was 18 I just felt so much despair that I knew I couldn't continue this way and sought out the help of a counselor. After spending 2 hours a week for 4 months I was officially diagnosed with Gad worth underlying depressing and moderate symptoms of Sad. We worked together every week and dealt with many things until I felt that I was finally getting myself where I wanted to be. About a year and a half ago things just felt stagnant and we discussed finally going on medication. I started on effexor xr 37.5 mg. That when things were getting better but we ended up increasing it to 75 mg about 9 months ago. And now I am here. I am to the point that I see my counselor when it seems necessary and these last few days seem blah. I just can't seem to describe it to others that do not suffer from anxiety, because no matter what I say it seems like there is always a rebuttal. Some say I need to just not claim anxiety and pray and read the bible because it is the devil. Others say that is just my feelings and I just need to learn to not let things effect me so much, or I am you emotional. My "favorite" had to be when others say ' oh I know how you feel, I get the same way before a test '. They don't understand that I wish everyday that I didn't have to deal with it. I wish that I didn't know the feeling that I need to take the medication so can feel somewhat normal. I know that currently it is my hormones effecting my anxiety and making it go into overdrive but I still have those thoughts and feelings and I just need to talk to someone that truly understand.

superchick22684
06-12-2014, 09:56 AM
Welcome to the forum tryingtobreathe. I know what its like to hear some of the responses you've heard from people like that anxiety is the devil and when people say they know "how you feel." I was diagnosed with anxiety after transferring to a different college to finish up my Bachelor's degree. I also was on Effexor for awhile. If you ever want to talk let me know.

Anne1221
06-12-2014, 11:04 AM
Those that don't suffer from anxiety have NO CLUE as to what it is like and HOW HARD IT IS TO LIVE WITH. They compare it to "their" idea of worrying or anxiety (like if they have a big test) which is nothing like what we go through! Keep reading this forum and you will find that there are many, many others who suffer just like you do. Do you have a counselor/therapist to help you in addition to that Effexor you're taking? I have a wonderful therapist and it has helped me greatly to have someone who understands anxiety.