bishop.23
04-23-2014, 05:27 PM
Hey guys,
So I recently moved in with my girlfriend of a couple of years. We have been dating through University but I have been somewhat unhappy before that because she sometimes gets in a pissed off mood and takes it out on me. Also, I feel like I cant talk to her about my feelings or my home life (back where I am from originally) because she says that I complain, however she will constantly complain about her life.
Anyways so we just moved in together (i moved into her apartment) and she has been making me feel like I am just a guest in her space. I started feeling extremely sick, always cold when it is hot, going to the bathroom a lot, and not eating (very unusual for me). Instead of making me feel better about it, she has been saying things like "well then fucking go home cause you obviously don't want to be here" or she yells at me about how I am not eating which just makes me feel even sicker. My mom is very supportive and told me to come home to recharge whenever I feel like it, but my girlfriend even complains about that and says that I am going to be leaving her alone all the time. I am constantly worrying about what will happen if this feeling does't stop and what I should do. I also worry about what will happen if I want to go home at some point and she gets all pissed at me. Another thing that has been eating me up is what I am going to do come December when we are done school...she tries to make plans for the both of us wayyyyyyy in the future, but I have more plans for just me like moving home for a bit and starting my own business.
I really do not know what I can do to make me feel better and if I am even suffering from anxiety, but this has happened before when I have gone somewhere abnormal (like when I moved into res at school) but not this bad. I am not trying to make anyone with severe anxiety feel bad and I am not trying to come on here and complain and say "poor me, poor me" but it does feel good to hear what others have to say and what I can possibly do.
Thanks for any help,
-b
So I recently moved in with my girlfriend of a couple of years. We have been dating through University but I have been somewhat unhappy before that because she sometimes gets in a pissed off mood and takes it out on me. Also, I feel like I cant talk to her about my feelings or my home life (back where I am from originally) because she says that I complain, however she will constantly complain about her life.
Anyways so we just moved in together (i moved into her apartment) and she has been making me feel like I am just a guest in her space. I started feeling extremely sick, always cold when it is hot, going to the bathroom a lot, and not eating (very unusual for me). Instead of making me feel better about it, she has been saying things like "well then fucking go home cause you obviously don't want to be here" or she yells at me about how I am not eating which just makes me feel even sicker. My mom is very supportive and told me to come home to recharge whenever I feel like it, but my girlfriend even complains about that and says that I am going to be leaving her alone all the time. I am constantly worrying about what will happen if this feeling does't stop and what I should do. I also worry about what will happen if I want to go home at some point and she gets all pissed at me. Another thing that has been eating me up is what I am going to do come December when we are done school...she tries to make plans for the both of us wayyyyyyy in the future, but I have more plans for just me like moving home for a bit and starting my own business.
I really do not know what I can do to make me feel better and if I am even suffering from anxiety, but this has happened before when I have gone somewhere abnormal (like when I moved into res at school) but not this bad. I am not trying to make anyone with severe anxiety feel bad and I am not trying to come on here and complain and say "poor me, poor me" but it does feel good to hear what others have to say and what I can possibly do.
Thanks for any help,
-b