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littleone123
04-05-2014, 10:54 AM
I'm meeting a guy next weekend for the first time and I really like him but I'm soooooo nervous. Any tips lol

socaltouch14
04-05-2014, 11:23 AM
Hes just as nervous i assure u. Dont look into it too much, if u click good if u dont then on to the next one. Wen i start to feel nervous now i try to let it run its course and then focus on relief. Easier said then done but can b done

jessed03
04-05-2014, 11:55 AM
Warm up a little first. We're kinda introverted and introspective with anxiety. Nice to get out of your shell a bit before a date or interview. Have some fun with friends, even have a funny chat on Facebook or over the phone with somebody who has good energy.

Other than that, I've got nothing. You're meant to be nervous, that's half the fun ;)

littleone123
04-05-2014, 12:52 PM
Ye my anxiety runs away with me sometimes and I tense my face and jaw and give myself a headache n then I end up in a bad way. Why do we have to have such bad nerves lol

jessed03
04-05-2014, 02:23 PM
Lol, I know right!

Nice new pic btw.

I saw it and thought who's the new girl.

Then realized, oh it's littleone.

littleone123
04-05-2014, 02:37 PM
Haha thanks I fancied a change. It just takes over and goes crazy out of control

Kabukicho
04-05-2014, 06:44 PM
THAT is a situation where I would be perfectly fine feeling nervous in. Kind of adds to the fun, I think.

Nervous on airplanes, nervous at work, nervous and unable to sleep at night--no thanks. But nervous on a first date, sure! Have fun and (I know this probably sounds weird) enjoy a bit of the NORMAL anxiety that EVERYONE gets.

littleone123
04-06-2014, 01:58 AM
Yes that's true everyone feels the anxiety in those sorts of moments I need to try remember that n tell myself it's a good anxiety. Sometimes easier said than done haha