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LaLa-Land
03-13-2014, 07:26 PM
Hello all,

I'm new to the forum, but definitely not new to anxiety. I've had anxiety disorder, specifically GAD, for 18 years with on and off relapses in between.

Recently, I'm going through another relapse that originally stems from a car accident I was involved in November. It was minor, and kind of silly in all honesty, and not my fault, but I obsessed for weeks that it was my fault. Ended up getting sick with a bad flu and had to take medicine (which I also have a bad med phobia). Then my vehicle's battery died and I swore up and down that I HAD to get rid of the van because it was triggering some very bad anxiety.

Then... see there was a lot that made my mind finally scream "mercy"... during the Christmas season is when the intrusive OCD thoughts began. And depression.

And now I'm here.

One thing I know I need to do is break free of my med phobia. 18 years is soooo long without medication and I'm soooo tired of this same loop-d-loop. Another thing I need to do is continue with my therapy. I'm currently participating in Dialectical Behavior Therapy and mindfulness practices to quiet my anxious thoughts and worries. Hopefully I can stick with it forever, even after (fingers crossed) medication therapy.

Unfortunately, my therapist doesn't believe me when I tell her I have OCD obsessive thoughts (no one does, except for the my old therapist that told me that). I'm debating finding a new therapist, but I've been through that loop a millions times too.

So anyway, hi!

butterfly82
03-13-2014, 08:00 PM
Hi! I also just joined today. I have GAD and panic disorder with agoraphobia. I've suffered with the GAD for 8 years which brought one the panic disorder and agoraphobia the last 2 years. It's becoming worse the last few months. It's starting to take a tool on my family now too. I hope to find a treatment that will actually help me manage this so I can live a somewhat normal life again.

NixonRulz
03-13-2014, 08:04 PM
Hello all, I'm new to the forum, but definitely not new to anxiety. I've had anxiety disorder, specifically GAD, for 18 years with on and off relapses in between. Recently, I'm going through another relapse that originally stems from a car accident I was involved in November. It was minor, and kind of silly in all honesty, and not my fault, but I obsessed for weeks that it was my fault. Ended up getting sick with a bad flu and had to take medicine (which I also have a bad med phobia). Then my vehicle's battery died and I swore up and down that I HAD to get rid of the van because it was triggering some very bad anxiety. Then... see there was a lot that made my mind finally scream "mercy"... during the Christmas season is when the intrusive OCD thoughts began. And depression. And now I'm here. One thing I know I need to do is break free of my med phobia. 18 years is soooo long without medication and I'm soooo tired of this same loop-d-loop. Another thing I need to do is continue with my therapy. I'm currently participating in Dialectical Behavior Therapy and mindfulness practices to quiet my anxious thoughts and worries. Hopefully I can stick with it forever, even after (fingers crossed) medication therapy. Unfortunately, my therapist doesn't believe me when I tell her I have OCD obsessive thoughts (no one does, except for the my old therapist that told me that). I'm debating finding a new therapist, but I've been through that loop a millions times too. So anyway, hi!

Welcome to you and Butterfly too

I am just fascinated that you drive a van.

Do you have a bumper sticker that says "if this van's a rockin, don't come a knockin?"

It doesn't matter what you fear. You fear

So you have have anxiety issues that you will be able to sort out

Post and read even more

It will help more than you can imagine

butterfly82
03-13-2014, 08:24 PM
Thank you. Reading that I'm not the only one dealing with this "crazy" stuff really does help.