letssee
02-24-2014, 04:01 AM
I always find myself wondering why *exactly* it's so pervasive and unrelenting.
I can turn literally anything into some reason to insult myself. People having anything close to fun on TV/in pictures, same with food, bodies I envy, faces I envy, it's like I literally cannot have eyes without always seeing *something* that triggers negative thoughts.
I see a bunny outside my window, and it reminds me how lonely I am without a pet.
I see a car coming while I walk down the street, and all I imagine is them laughing at me.
I see the snow and think of how I watched fall pass, and only went outside literally a handful of times. Maybe four. I literally missed my favorite season.
I see anyone who is good at anything, and it reminds me of awful I am at everything.
Some days I can't even listen to music, the thing that used to be closest to my heart.
I see clothes and all I can think of how wrong everything looks on my body and how trying to look nice is pointless for me.
I see children and all I think of is how badly I wish I hadn't had that miscarriage in November even though it didn't devastate me at the time. I'm terrified I can never have kids.
I see people succeed at something and am reminded I'll never accomplish anything worth mention.
I see someone who is in college and all I see is my failure to ever attend and I want nothing more currently.
I feel like it's already too late for me to be extraordinary.
I see someone get a compliment, about anything, and all I can think of is how much more frequently people pointed out the good in me when I was 50 pounds lighter than I am now. (Was 50 heavier than now at 15, then the 50 lighter than now, then a year ago 30 heavier)
I'm completely losing my ability to stay positive.
Not even stay "positive", just not making everything into something to be upset over.
I know people who are the way I describe usually lash out at people who are doing well but no, I do think they all deserve it, and I think being hostile towards someone for having good things you don't have is petty and selfish.
I just can't seem to shake the habit.
It makes me feel like such a self centered POS.
I can turn literally anything into some reason to insult myself. People having anything close to fun on TV/in pictures, same with food, bodies I envy, faces I envy, it's like I literally cannot have eyes without always seeing *something* that triggers negative thoughts.
I see a bunny outside my window, and it reminds me how lonely I am without a pet.
I see a car coming while I walk down the street, and all I imagine is them laughing at me.
I see the snow and think of how I watched fall pass, and only went outside literally a handful of times. Maybe four. I literally missed my favorite season.
I see anyone who is good at anything, and it reminds me of awful I am at everything.
Some days I can't even listen to music, the thing that used to be closest to my heart.
I see clothes and all I can think of how wrong everything looks on my body and how trying to look nice is pointless for me.
I see children and all I think of is how badly I wish I hadn't had that miscarriage in November even though it didn't devastate me at the time. I'm terrified I can never have kids.
I see people succeed at something and am reminded I'll never accomplish anything worth mention.
I see someone who is in college and all I see is my failure to ever attend and I want nothing more currently.
I feel like it's already too late for me to be extraordinary.
I see someone get a compliment, about anything, and all I can think of is how much more frequently people pointed out the good in me when I was 50 pounds lighter than I am now. (Was 50 heavier than now at 15, then the 50 lighter than now, then a year ago 30 heavier)
I'm completely losing my ability to stay positive.
Not even stay "positive", just not making everything into something to be upset over.
I know people who are the way I describe usually lash out at people who are doing well but no, I do think they all deserve it, and I think being hostile towards someone for having good things you don't have is petty and selfish.
I just can't seem to shake the habit.
It makes me feel like such a self centered POS.