My bfs mother just died

[flowergirl2310]

Hi, I'm 21

My bf is 25, he just lost his mother after loosing his father 3 years ago
I suffer from anxiety and I am having a very weird reaction, I'm so cold that all my body is shaking, my head is pinning and I can't stop shivering.
I feel responsible for him and it is too much for me to handle.
I don't know what to do. Help me

[jessed03]

I'm so sorry flower girl... That's horrible.

My condolences to your bf and the families concerned.

Part of what you've gotta do is just be there. That's gonna help so much, even if it's hard.

[GeneAllen]

My condolences,

Like Jesse said, "just be there". This is what we can do, and that's a lot.

Peace

[jessed03]

How're you doing flower girl?

[flowergirl2310]

I'm very scared! He is an orphan and I feel responsible.
He is completely fine, saying sad is powerful and he will use it to motivate him at work

[shonaat]

Just be there for him:) it's the best you can do x

[ashly1221]

Sorry for your family's loss. I hope you are starting to feel a little better. All you can do is just be there next to him. Even if you don't say anything. I've lost a parent before and all I ever wanted was to know that my family was there if I needed to talk. It's all you need to do :)