srs170
01-19-2014, 01:16 AM
Hello everyone. My name is Shanna and I am 22 years old. Im new to this forum, and talking about my depression openly all together. I am very nervous about sharing my thoughts/feelings and even more nervous to hear the advice and points if views of others, however i feel that I cannot bear the loneliness of holding it in anymore and I feel like I just have to get my thoughts and feelings out somewhere. Im a little desperate and I feel like im drowning. Ive never talked about my depression with anybody but my bf, so please bear with me because I have a lot to say.
I have been depressed for a very very long time. As long and as far back as I can remember making my first real, reflective, conscious thought. I suffer from really horrible social anxiety and so as much as I want to go talk to someone professionally, I cant because Im afraid if being judged. Even sharing this now scares the noodles out of me because I dont want to be judged. Ill spare the details of all my depressive episodes and just cut to what has really been pushing me to find help lately.
As I mentioned before the only person who knows about my depression is my bf. I have been dating him for 4 years now and honestly I live and breath for him. He gives my life purpose and meaning and hes the only one who gets me and understands me...but recently, i feel that loving me is becoming more of a chore because of my depression and negative thoughts...i feel that my emotions are pushing him away and making the one person that is able to make me feel young and alive, feel like he has to be strong for the both of us..and its making him tired..i cant help but tell him all the details on my mind because he is my only outlet..i literally dont have a single friend..he is my only friend..and i cant tell my family because they wont understand and dont know how to deal with me..whenever i tell my bf my emotions now i immediately feel guilty for sharing them and making him listen to all the negativity and self hate that i have... Its gotten to the point where i feel like my emotions have ruined and pushed away the one good thing i have in my life..and recently i found that hes been flirting and talking to other girls when hes never done that before.. He says he loves he so much but..idk..i dont even know what to say because it makes me cry...
Honestly lately i just wish that I didnt feel or think anything..like my emotions ruin everything.. I just want to think like a normal human being and not fall apart every day..recently ive been wishing and praying that I just disappear..all records of me.. My names, my belongings, all memories of me.. Like i never even existed at all.. I just want to vaporize... I hate myself so bad that even i want to get away from me...what should I do? I feel like this is my last hope..please someone help and understand me..
I have been depressed for a very very long time. As long and as far back as I can remember making my first real, reflective, conscious thought. I suffer from really horrible social anxiety and so as much as I want to go talk to someone professionally, I cant because Im afraid if being judged. Even sharing this now scares the noodles out of me because I dont want to be judged. Ill spare the details of all my depressive episodes and just cut to what has really been pushing me to find help lately.
As I mentioned before the only person who knows about my depression is my bf. I have been dating him for 4 years now and honestly I live and breath for him. He gives my life purpose and meaning and hes the only one who gets me and understands me...but recently, i feel that loving me is becoming more of a chore because of my depression and negative thoughts...i feel that my emotions are pushing him away and making the one person that is able to make me feel young and alive, feel like he has to be strong for the both of us..and its making him tired..i cant help but tell him all the details on my mind because he is my only outlet..i literally dont have a single friend..he is my only friend..and i cant tell my family because they wont understand and dont know how to deal with me..whenever i tell my bf my emotions now i immediately feel guilty for sharing them and making him listen to all the negativity and self hate that i have... Its gotten to the point where i feel like my emotions have ruined and pushed away the one good thing i have in my life..and recently i found that hes been flirting and talking to other girls when hes never done that before.. He says he loves he so much but..idk..i dont even know what to say because it makes me cry...
Honestly lately i just wish that I didnt feel or think anything..like my emotions ruin everything.. I just want to think like a normal human being and not fall apart every day..recently ive been wishing and praying that I just disappear..all records of me.. My names, my belongings, all memories of me.. Like i never even existed at all.. I just want to vaporize... I hate myself so bad that even i want to get away from me...what should I do? I feel like this is my last hope..please someone help and understand me..