what is wrong with me?

[kketchupp]

Hey! I'm 16 years old and the last couple of years I've been joking a lot about sex and discussing It just as much. But recently It have gotten out of hands..
I don't know a single person who wouldn't describe me as a pervert.

And I've always enjoyed it because I like dirty jokes and such. But when I'm being called sexual and pervert now I feel bad. I don't want to be called that, because it's not me. Its doesn't define who I am but everyone think so and I don't want to be that kind of person.

But at the same time I can't help myself, I can't stop and It feels like an obsessions and I lost control.
Please any advice?
Is It just puberty? Or do I actually need help?

[MiST]

16 and obsessed with sex sounds pretty normal to me. I wouldn't worry about it..:D

[cls1033]

nothing wrong with a dirty sense of humor. everyone at some point has made a dirty joke

[jessed03]

Tell me a funny sex joke?

[kketchupp]

Tell me a funny sex joke?

I barely do story telling jokes. More like if you would say something like "I can't plug It in" then my mind just screams: say something dirty

[SamC]

your 16 your hormones are changing and lets face it prob all your friends are talking about, thinking about and discussing this too, everyone laughs at these jokes as its a social topic in your age group, so what prob started as a bit of attention and enjoyment of ppl laughing at your jokes and you being able to join in with everyones conversation has prob just went a step to far so you just need to learn where the boundaries between funny and taking it too far are thats all :)

[cls1033]

I hear ya I do the same thing all the time

[alankay]

Just a phase in all likelihood. We all learn by pushing "norms" , etc, and by feedback. I bet many feel the same way. Alankay

[kketchupp]

Thanks for all replies!

[jessed03]

It's sad you're not a guy. If you were a guy, you could joke about it with friends all the time, no one would care :(

[MiST]

It's sad you're not a guy. If you were a guy, you could joke about it with friends all the time, no one would care :(

Are you kidding me? Have you ever heard a bunch of girls chatting about sex when they don't know a bloke can hear them? It's filthy..LOL

[jessed03]

Lol no I haven't actually.

This won't be a problem as you get older. An easier solution still is find pervier friends ;)

[janey]

If it's bothering you, then just THINK the dirty thing. You don't always have to say it out loud and be judged.

[kketchupp]

If it's bothering you, then just THINK the dirty thing. You don't always have to say it out loud and be judged.

That is one of the problems, most of the times I have to say It or It feels like I'm going crazy. I don't know if I'm craving for attention through this..?

[janey]

Probably. We all kind of crave attention and get it in our own ways. I act similar to you in the fact that I'm 21 and I like to act 10 years old.

Maybe you could say it under your breath like you're singing a song. LOL!