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kketchupp
12-23-2013, 05:35 PM
Hey! I'm 16 years old and the last couple of years I've been joking a lot about sex and discussing It just as much. But recently It have gotten out of hands..
I don't know a single person who wouldn't describe me as a pervert.
And I've always enjoyed it because I like dirty jokes and such. But when I'm being called sexual and pervert now I feel bad. I don't want to be called that, because it's not me. Its doesn't define who I am but everyone think so and I don't want to be that kind of person.
But at the same time I can't help myself, I can't stop and It feels like an obsessions and I lost control.
Please any advice?
Is It just puberty? Or do I actually need help?
16 and obsessed with sex sounds pretty normal to me. I wouldn't worry about it..:D
cls1033
12-23-2013, 05:43 PM
nothing wrong with a dirty sense of humor. everyone at some point has made a dirty joke
jessed03
12-23-2013, 05:48 PM
Tell me a funny sex joke?
kketchupp
12-23-2013, 05:52 PM
Tell me a funny sex joke?
I barely do story telling jokes. More like if you would say something like "I can't plug It in" then my mind just screams: say something dirty
your 16 your hormones are changing and lets face it prob all your friends are talking about, thinking about and discussing this too, everyone laughs at these jokes as its a social topic in your age group, so what prob started as a bit of attention and enjoyment of ppl laughing at your jokes and you being able to join in with everyones conversation has prob just went a step to far so you just need to learn where the boundaries between funny and taking it too far are thats all :)
cls1033
12-23-2013, 05:57 PM
I hear ya I do the same thing all the time
alankay
12-23-2013, 07:35 PM
Just a phase in all likelihood. We all learn by pushing "norms" , etc, and by feedback. I bet many feel the same way. Alankay
kketchupp
12-24-2013, 08:12 AM
Thanks for all replies!
jessed03
12-24-2013, 08:22 AM
It's sad you're not a guy. If you were a guy, you could joke about it with friends all the time, no one would care :(
It's sad you're not a guy. If you were a guy, you could joke about it with friends all the time, no one would care :(
Are you kidding me? Have you ever heard a bunch of girls chatting about sex when they don't know a bloke can hear them? It's filthy..LOL
jessed03
12-24-2013, 08:34 AM
Lol no I haven't actually.
This won't be a problem as you get older. An easier solution still is find pervier friends ;)
janey
12-24-2013, 09:04 AM
If it's bothering you, then just THINK the dirty thing. You don't always have to say it out loud and be judged.
kketchupp
12-25-2013, 05:18 AM
If it's bothering you, then just THINK the dirty thing. You don't always have to say it out loud and be judged.
That is one of the problems, most of the times I have to say It or It feels like I'm going crazy. I don't know if I'm craving for attention through this..?
janey
12-25-2013, 08:17 AM
Probably. We all kind of crave attention and get it in our own ways. I act similar to you in the fact that I'm 21 and I like to act 10 years old.
Maybe you could say it under your breath like you're singing a song. LOL!
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