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acatch22
11-23-2013, 10:30 PM
Hi all, first post on any forum like this ever so here goes. I turned 25 last month and I think I experienced my first panic attack a few weeks ago, though I'm not really sure. I just remember crouching on the floor, breathless and in tears for no particular reason other than possibly a culmination of stress that has been building up in me for, oh, about 25 years now (Guess I reached my threshold?) It didn't last long and afterwards I just got in the shower like nothing weird had just happened.

For about a week or so after, I was constantly short of breath, could barely even talk without losing my breath at certain times, started losing weight with NO changes in my diet and extreme hunger shortly after I had eaten, experienced abdominal cramps, chest pain, heart palpitations, horrible insomnia, crazy change in bowel movements, muscle and joint pain in my leg.. I'll stop there. Is all this normal so long after the initial panic attack? Or was this just one really long panic attack? Is that even possible?

After a couple days, I figured if it was something really serious, I would know by now. So I waited until the weekend so I could justify going to immediate care instead of my doctor (who I was embarrassed to see because she had hinted at a prior visit that I should come back and see her to address the anxiety she thought I had.) Anyway I saw the immediate care doctor and sure enough, he said I more than likely have anxiety and to see my regular doctor. I'm sure I just came across as a crazy hypochondriac to him. He did run some tests to check my thyroid, cell count, and blood sugar.

After getting the negative tests results the next day, I slowly started to feel better, making me think it really was just all in my head. However, it's about two weeks later and some symptoms still linger but to a lesser extent like occasional chest and abdominal pain, constant low energy and breathlessness when doing anything other than sitting or talking, and I'm starting to look pretty frail (even to people who know I've always been thin.)

So of course Dr. Google has been filling my head with all the crazy things I could possibly have which isn't helping my case but I think I would rather have something curable than have to suffer from anxiety for the rest of my life.

I have no one in the world I can talk to about this. Actually, I do have people I could talk to (mainly family) but I've never been able to open up to ANYONE my entire life and I don't see myself starting with this kicker.

Before all of this I was just trying to move past my past and finally start living but I don't know how I can with this on my plate now, assuming that this is anxiety and not something else. How can I get a job? Finally move out on my own? Have a relationship? Friends? So lost, really need some help, advice, encouragement, a simple "hello" or all of the above.

NeverToo...Fear
11-24-2013, 04:53 AM
Hello, acatch22...... :)

Panic attacks come in all different shapes and sizes, so to speak. It sounds like you had a really bad panic attack that one day and now you are dealing with the aftershock. Big earthquake came, and it left its devastation on you, taking its toll at your expense.

How did your Doc detect that you had some anxiety before this happened to you? Was it all the stress in your life maybe? Sometimes we may be able to think we can handle all that stress and for a short time we can and it's good. Some stress is healthy, but it's more about how long you are carrying that stress where it starts to deeply affect you until all of a sudden you snap.

You might have anxiety now, but don't look at it like you are stuck with it to spiral into doom; rather that you have to learn to live with it in a better way. You can have that job, move out, have relationships and friends...life just likes to throw hurdles and punches and we just have to known when to jump and duck, even if we get a little beaten along the way.. (er, that was my encouragement part of this message.. I hope you found it encouraging ;))

Anyway, very welcome to the forum.. I'm sure you'll find some friends and good advice here!

acatch22
11-24-2013, 01:37 PM
NeverToo...Fear,
Before this happened I went to my doctor because of digestive issues and she diagnosed me with ibs and said it can be brought on by stress and anxiety. She may have also picked it up in my demeanor because I tend to fidget a lot in certain situations like doctor visits. Anyway, thanks for the reply and your words of encouragement. I honestly just needed to get it off my chest and I'm sure I'll get a lot of use out of this site!

NeverToo...Fear
11-24-2013, 07:18 PM
Pretty good Doc you have there if she was able to pick up on those warning signs.. hopefully when you do go back she wont give you so much of an "I told you so" look :P ...And maybe she will be able to address your anxiety and help you out.

Lot's of use to get from this place. Like you've already done, it really does help to just write (or type) things out... :)