aekelund
10-07-2013, 10:52 PM
Hello there.
Im writing this post more out of desperation than anything else. I havent written anything on this site in over two years, but it has gotten to a point where I feel that if I dont tell anyone about my current situation, I am going to lose my mind. I just need to get a few words out there.
I have been struggeling with social and generalized anxiety for about 10 years now. It has been on a stable level a lot of years now, and it has gotten to the point where I cant seem to remember the last time i truly felt good about myself and my situation. However, this is not why i decided to write this.
For about a year now I have noticed a gradual change in my mental wellbeing. This is when it starts to get difficult for me, becuase Im having a really hard time deciding where to start or how to correctly describe how im feeling, but ill give it a shot:
Simply put it, I feel absolutely horrible. I can barely sleep at night anymore, and when I do ill either wake up several times during the night or not get any restful sleep at all. I can go through the whole night, being in a weird state that I cant desribe. Its like im somewhere between sleep and consciousness where my mind is racing like you wouldnt believe. Because of this, I fatigued and tired all the time, every day.
I feel confused, and have a really hard time trying to concentrate. Ill try to read simple sentences but it feels like there is a constant, difficult to describe noise in my head thats making concentration really challenging. This has been a problem because of my anxiety for a long time, but recently it has gotten increasingly worse, to the point where I just feel plain stupid. A few days ago, on saturday, I actually went the whole day convinced it was tuesday, for some strange reason.
I cant get myself to do anything at all. My apartment is a mess, and all i do everyday is sit at my computer. Im not lazy, and I cant explain why, but even the most simple things like putting dishes in the washer or putting the garbage in the garbage can feels like a huge task and everything is piling up around me, making my situation even more difficult. Im getting anxious just thinking about it. And im afraid that people will knock on my door and notice how im living at the moment.
Nothing, and I mean nothing interests me anymore. I can sit at the computer, impulsively clicking on random things or watch the same tv shows or movies over and over again. Not because I like it, but because its the only way I can isolate myself from my life. I try to forget everything around me and i get some peace out of it, which is why i have to do it most of the day.
I get irritated by so much, almost all the time. It can be about a character on a film or tv show, the computer locking up, the cat wanting to go out or other random and insignificant things. Sometimes i feel like im going to explode.
I feel completely empty inside, and cant remember the last time i was happy or felt anything else but the things associated with my anxiety. Im NEVER with any friends anymore, people have stopped calling me because I simply just dont pick up the phone and I dont have any motivation to go out and be social or do anything. I feel completely isolated from anything outside my apartment, and other than buying food I havent been outside for months. I feel more socially anxious than ever, even when out shopping I feel anxious because I get the feeling people are judging me or in other ways thinking poorly of me just by the items im purchasing (unhealthy food in particular)
Its like im in a dark hole that gets deeper and harder to get out of every minute. Every day everything feels more hopeless, and I have the feeling im never going to get out of this nightmare.
Just had to get it all out, thanks to anyone who took the time to read it. Just knowing im not completely alone with my thoughts anymore makes it a little easier.
Im writing this post more out of desperation than anything else. I havent written anything on this site in over two years, but it has gotten to a point where I feel that if I dont tell anyone about my current situation, I am going to lose my mind. I just need to get a few words out there.
I have been struggeling with social and generalized anxiety for about 10 years now. It has been on a stable level a lot of years now, and it has gotten to the point where I cant seem to remember the last time i truly felt good about myself and my situation. However, this is not why i decided to write this.
For about a year now I have noticed a gradual change in my mental wellbeing. This is when it starts to get difficult for me, becuase Im having a really hard time deciding where to start or how to correctly describe how im feeling, but ill give it a shot:
Simply put it, I feel absolutely horrible. I can barely sleep at night anymore, and when I do ill either wake up several times during the night or not get any restful sleep at all. I can go through the whole night, being in a weird state that I cant desribe. Its like im somewhere between sleep and consciousness where my mind is racing like you wouldnt believe. Because of this, I fatigued and tired all the time, every day.
I feel confused, and have a really hard time trying to concentrate. Ill try to read simple sentences but it feels like there is a constant, difficult to describe noise in my head thats making concentration really challenging. This has been a problem because of my anxiety for a long time, but recently it has gotten increasingly worse, to the point where I just feel plain stupid. A few days ago, on saturday, I actually went the whole day convinced it was tuesday, for some strange reason.
I cant get myself to do anything at all. My apartment is a mess, and all i do everyday is sit at my computer. Im not lazy, and I cant explain why, but even the most simple things like putting dishes in the washer or putting the garbage in the garbage can feels like a huge task and everything is piling up around me, making my situation even more difficult. Im getting anxious just thinking about it. And im afraid that people will knock on my door and notice how im living at the moment.
Nothing, and I mean nothing interests me anymore. I can sit at the computer, impulsively clicking on random things or watch the same tv shows or movies over and over again. Not because I like it, but because its the only way I can isolate myself from my life. I try to forget everything around me and i get some peace out of it, which is why i have to do it most of the day.
I get irritated by so much, almost all the time. It can be about a character on a film or tv show, the computer locking up, the cat wanting to go out or other random and insignificant things. Sometimes i feel like im going to explode.
I feel completely empty inside, and cant remember the last time i was happy or felt anything else but the things associated with my anxiety. Im NEVER with any friends anymore, people have stopped calling me because I simply just dont pick up the phone and I dont have any motivation to go out and be social or do anything. I feel completely isolated from anything outside my apartment, and other than buying food I havent been outside for months. I feel more socially anxious than ever, even when out shopping I feel anxious because I get the feeling people are judging me or in other ways thinking poorly of me just by the items im purchasing (unhealthy food in particular)
Its like im in a dark hole that gets deeper and harder to get out of every minute. Every day everything feels more hopeless, and I have the feeling im never going to get out of this nightmare.
Just had to get it all out, thanks to anyone who took the time to read it. Just knowing im not completely alone with my thoughts anymore makes it a little easier.