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jessecun
08-13-2013, 11:08 PM
Hi everyone. First- I would like to apologize for the length of this post.

My anxiety started about a month ago. While I was at work, I started having anxious thoughts. I guess this sort of lead into a panic attack- I felt an intense feeling of dread. I felt dizzy and I felt as if I was going crazy and that I was going to loose consciousness. I also felt really disconnected from the world, it felt as if my soul was ripped out of my body (depersonalization) and I freaked out because I had never experienced this before. Prior to this experience, I would get these "5 second" feelings of being out of place, but I eventually "came back" if that makes sense. These feelings felt like I was under the influence of weed. (which I have done in the past) Anyways, these feelings didn't go away and I had to cope with them for the next couple hours because I couldn't go home from work. After coming home, I told my sister that I wasn't feeling like myself and that I was so frightened from my experience. I hoped that these feelings would pass by the time I woke up- but unfortunately they didn't.
Curious, I spent hours on Google trying to figure out what I gone through. I came across panic attacks and anxiety. I felt a sense of comfort finally realizing what I've gone through. But these feelings of "unreality" and anxiety were constantly on and off (more on) for the next couple weeks. I constantly worried about my health 24/7. I have always had a fear of schizophrenia ever since I learned about the disorder in psychology class. Everytime I had these "feelings" , I was convinced that I was in fact going crazy and developing the disorder. I started to do more research and found out the the onset of the disorder was around the late teens/early 20s (I'm 18) and I found out that marijuana can increase the likelihood of developing the disease (which I have done in the past) , and I kept looking up the symptoms and some symptoms such as "brain fog" totally matched up. I was convinced that I was living my worst fear. However, I also learned that anxiety has a way of making the individual constantly worry about problems, so I tried to start thinking more positive.
Anxiety has really taken a toll on my life, and has effected my relationships with my friends and family. I also find it hard to work because when I'm at work, my anxiety is high and its hard for me to concentrate and do my job. There is nothing more that I want than my life being back to normal. Being fed up with how I was feeling, I booked an appointment with my doctor, who eventually referred me to the psychologist. I explained to him everything- how I felt, my experiences, and my fears. He basically just told me it was anxiety and he told me that he was positive that I didn't have schizophrenia or bi-polar disorder, which provided me with much comfort. He sort of just told me to practice deep breathing and continue to go out with my friends to take my mind off my anxiety- and that eventually I would get better.
Ever since I had that panic attack at work, which was over a month ago, I haven't been feeling like myself, and it sucks because I feel like I have no one to talk to because I feel as if no one truly understands what I'm going through. I had hope until a couple nights ago, I had fallen asleep around 2:45AM (anxiety has effected my sleeping schedule) and I woke up around 5AM and I couldn't go back to sleep because of my thoughts. I fell asleep on my couch around 8:50AM and no more than 5-10 minutes later, I woke up and basically started hallucinating. I felt half awake and half asleep, and I felt very groggy. I woke up and I saw where I was at on the couch, I started seeing colorful geometric shapes and lights and I heard a constant beeping noise. It scared the hell out of me, and while I was hallucinating, I thought that "This is it. I'm going crazy." I was frozen and couldn't do anything. Eventually after about 10 seconds, I snapped out of it and everything was normal again. Frightened, I went on Google once again and came across sleep paralysis and hypnagogic hallucinations. I tried to search causes of hypnagogic hallucinations and I came across sleep deprivation, narcolepsy, stress, anxiety, insomnia, etc. I know I do not have narcolepsy, but I read somewhere that it could be schizophrenia and that if you have these hallucinations and don't have narcolepsy, it is a possibility that it could be schizophrenia. I am seriously freaking out. I don't know what to do with myself. I feel like my life is over and I feel like its just time until I start seeing/hearing things that aren't real. I'm seriously scared of my well being. I am constantly checking if I hear something. I even double check and ask people if they heard the noise as well. I'm so tired of feeling like this.
Today while at work, my co-worker had offered me some gum and I thought "What if she poisoned this gum?" I freaked out because I knew that she wouldn't do something like that, and I started to wonder why I would even come to that conclusion. I'm going to make another appointment with the psychologist and try to get some help. I really don't know whats wrong with me. I need some reassurance and closure.
Can anyone relate to how I'm feeling? And can anyone relate to my experiences?
Thank you all for reading- I means a lot. ):

story
08-14-2013, 01:59 AM
Me too, had my anxiety issue stated from workplace. Probably due to the work pressure.
Since end of last year, I have been getting tension headache and major hair loss. These really freaked me out and I have gotten a few minor panic attack ever since.
Surely I could not fully understand what you are going through, but I can relate a little and you are definitely not alone in this.

Willo1982
08-14-2013, 03:02 AM
Anxiety really can play tricks on your mind. Last year I went through a scary faze that I might be schizophrenic as I was worried I might hurt someone. I did read into what anxiety can do to the mind and how it can make you think and luckily I was able to reassure myself that I was fine. I know am stressing over the thought of having a serious neuro problem... damn anxiety! It is such a horrible disease but it can be over comed. Stay strong.

HealthAnxNut
08-14-2013, 04:16 PM
First of all, you are not alone! My first panic attack came after a very stressful day at work. I've never been the same since then. That was back in 2007. It is a journey, but you won't always have bad days all the time. At first, the scariest thing is thinking it will happen again. After a while (and possibly after it happening several more times) you learn how to cope better, and you may be able to prevent them, or lessen the effects. On another note, I actually was just reading an article about schizophrenia the other day, where they mentioned the sufferer rarely wonders if there is anything wrong - ie. they are not aware of the issue in a lot of cases. Remember, that is a trigger for you, because you know more about it. That is what sucks for us medical anxiety folks - the more we learn, the worse we feel! Therapy has really helped me in the past, so maybe you can start seeing someone consistently for a while, and let them get a longer-term evaluation of you? If they get to know you, you may feel better trusting their diagnosis, and talking about some things that may be issues would really help as well.

Bulldog2003
08-14-2013, 04:21 PM
I can relate and if ur symptoms r truly that severe, then u might want to consider some professional treatment. It took me a long time to come to terms with my current condition, plus I was living with small children at the time. I had a lot going on and still do. I was also working professionally in Sales and did not completely understand what was going on with me at the time. I am doing better now, but am still struggling with anxiety since summer 2010. hope this helps.