Enough was enough

[valigail]

I finally had a blow up with my husband. He was on my last nerve and he started in on me not having a job. Basically, he made me feel like shit. I was driving, too!! It's not safe to drive while mad. We were going to the grocery after stopping at the bank. That's what got him started in on money and me not having a job. I'm going thru an episode and its not going very well. You would think that being married to someone with depression, he'd know what to say and what not to say around or to me! Nope! Instead of going to the grocery, I drove us home. We sat in the bedroom arguing and crying. After much argument and tears, we came to the conclusion that this marriage is beyond repair. He's hurt me way too much emotionally. Neither of us brings out the best in the other. I'm sad that my marriage is ending but I feel so free! And strong! It's as though an entire herd of elephants has stepped off my chest! I'm still young enough that I feel like this is the start of my next chapter!!

[jessy]

I finally had a blow up with my husband. He was on my last nerve and he started in on me not having a job. Basically, he made me feel like shit. I was driving, too!! It's not safe to drive while mad. We were going to the grocery after stopping at the bank. That's what got him started in on money and me not having a job. I'm going thru an episode and its not going very well. You would think that being married to someone with depression, he'd know what to say and what not to say around or to me! Nope! Instead of going to the grocery, I drove us home. We sat in the bedroom arguing and crying. After much argument and tears, we came to the conclusion that this marriage is beyond repair. He's hurt me way too much emotionally. Neither of us brings out the best in the other. I'm sad that my marriage is ending but I feel so free! And strong! It's as though an entire herd of elephants has stepped off my chest! I'm still young enough that I feel like this is the start of my next chapter!!

Wow that's just like my marriage
We are not happy & not a good match & things have been bad for a long long time . We keep saying we will end it but then for the kids sake we don't .
It's so hard living with depression but alongside a bad marriage it's even harder .
I hope you can find happiness & feel better & hope that you are stronger than me !! I'm I'm such a bad place I just can't cope with divorce .
Good luck Hun
Xxxx