Samantha34
06-24-2013, 09:46 AM
So im having problems with my dad and it seems to never stop. It always the same thing every time and he just wont see things my way or even try to understand me. I have problems with him telling me that i just have to "get over it" meaning get over my OCD and anxiety. I went and saw a new therapist last Thursday and she told me that i could ask him to say "i hope you get better soon" or something else thats not so mean. When my dad got home i asked him if he could do that and all he did was laugh and said "get over." To me that is very disrespectful and not supportive at all. I seriously feel like i need to move out of my house because of my dad. I really cant take him any more.
Yesterday morning when i got up he started yelling at me telling me that i need to get a job again. And ive told him a thousand times that i cant get a job because every job you have to use chemicals at some point and im afraid of chemicals right now. So i got mad and stormed out of my house because i couldnt listen to it.
I just feel like i have no one else to talk to because my mom backs up my dad saying that hes stressed out and my boyfriend doesnt know what to do. My boyfriend asked me if we needed to move in together just so that i can get away from my dad. When im with my boyfriend and at his house (he also lives with his parents) i feel a lot better and my OCD and anxiety arent killing me. Also when its time for me to go home i never want to because i hate my house and its all because of my dad. Im fine when im with my mom but i hate when my dad comes home.
I use to like my dad and now i cant even stand him. I dont like being around him because i never know what hes going to say or if hes going to piss me off.
Any advise on how i can mange to deal with him?
Yesterday morning when i got up he started yelling at me telling me that i need to get a job again. And ive told him a thousand times that i cant get a job because every job you have to use chemicals at some point and im afraid of chemicals right now. So i got mad and stormed out of my house because i couldnt listen to it.
I just feel like i have no one else to talk to because my mom backs up my dad saying that hes stressed out and my boyfriend doesnt know what to do. My boyfriend asked me if we needed to move in together just so that i can get away from my dad. When im with my boyfriend and at his house (he also lives with his parents) i feel a lot better and my OCD and anxiety arent killing me. Also when its time for me to go home i never want to because i hate my house and its all because of my dad. Im fine when im with my mom but i hate when my dad comes home.
I use to like my dad and now i cant even stand him. I dont like being around him because i never know what hes going to say or if hes going to piss me off.
Any advise on how i can mange to deal with him?