PositiveThinking!
01-19-2013, 09:55 AM
Well I've been recovering really well from my anxiety issues, mainly depersonalization which is basically gone, yet I think this part still needs to be worked on a lot, which is feeling horrible when people stop talking to me out of nowhere.
It has happened all my life but mainly this last year or two, people that I used to talk to daily, never got into any conflict with them or any sort of issues, some claim that I was becoming too obsessed with the friendship itself, some said I had a very strange attitude towards some things and half of them don't have a reason for it, I thought that this would end if I changed my attitude, if I became less obsessed with keeping friends and all that, but it did not work. Lately I've been talking to people normally, never putting any pressure on them, just having a healthy friendship and being there incase they needed me, but guess what, they still quit talking to me out of nowhere... I tried not giving a %#$@ when that happens and I have succeeded in part, I don't get all depressed and stuff like I used to but it still bugs me a bit since it doesn't make any sense at all, and what bothers me the most is the fact that it's not only one person at a time, it's like everyone at the same time!
Just wondering if anyone here has similar issues and if you have any tips for me on how not to care whenever this happens, even if you don't have any tips feel free to post your experiences :)
It has happened all my life but mainly this last year or two, people that I used to talk to daily, never got into any conflict with them or any sort of issues, some claim that I was becoming too obsessed with the friendship itself, some said I had a very strange attitude towards some things and half of them don't have a reason for it, I thought that this would end if I changed my attitude, if I became less obsessed with keeping friends and all that, but it did not work. Lately I've been talking to people normally, never putting any pressure on them, just having a healthy friendship and being there incase they needed me, but guess what, they still quit talking to me out of nowhere... I tried not giving a %#$@ when that happens and I have succeeded in part, I don't get all depressed and stuff like I used to but it still bugs me a bit since it doesn't make any sense at all, and what bothers me the most is the fact that it's not only one person at a time, it's like everyone at the same time!
Just wondering if anyone here has similar issues and if you have any tips for me on how not to care whenever this happens, even if you don't have any tips feel free to post your experiences :)