No one would miss me!

[Kalita]

I just want to disappear. All I seem to be doing is making people mad at me!! And I don't even know what I'm doing wrong?!!!!!!! I just feel like everyone would be happier and better off without me! WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?!!!!!!!!!

[Dogtime]

Are you doing things wrong? Or more likely you feel you're doing things wrong. There's a BIG difference!

The easiest thing you can do is talk to people. Make the questions you ask important by inviting someone to sit down in a quirt room and help you with a couple of problems you have.

Plus, search the big 'G' for NLP rapport. If you are having communication problems this will help you improve enormously.

[fiendwithoutaface]

We tend to be very hard on ourselves. Expecting way too much. Think of your closest loved one, when thinking poorly of yourself. Think of them telling you that everyone would be better off without them. Would you agree with them? No.
You have to try and be compassionate with yourself, as you would a close friend. Set small, attainable goals for yourself, and if you don't complete that goal, no biggie. There's always tomorrow. Really, try to be your own best friend, and be easier on yourself. :)

[mw0929]

I just want to disappear. All I seem to be doing is making people mad at me!! And I don't even know what I'm doing wrong?!!!!!!! I just feel like everyone would be happier and better off without me! WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?!!!!!!!!!

You are your toughest critic. If people are getting mad at you, ask them flat out why. If it's a stupid reason, tell them to piss off and find people that don't like drama. You deserve to be surrounded by supportive, caring people.

[n1ck13]

I just want to disappear. All I seem to be doing is making people mad at me!! And I don't even know what I'm doing wrong?!!!!!!! I just feel like everyone would be happier and better off without me! WHAT AM I DOING WRONG?!!!!!!!!!

I often feel the same way, except that I stress about it and therefore bend over backward to keep everyone happy and then spiral when I dont feel the same (or any...) level of care returned. I honestly feel like, with very few exceptions, that no one would really miss me if I was gone, they would all move on (I've seen it! Life just goes on...)

[angeleyes01]

I get you, I look after parents and nieces and nephews. And what do they care, will they care if I am no longer here. I like to think they will :( and as my mum tell's me every day I worry her