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js718
11-20-2012, 02:01 AM
I was diagnosed with PTSD and Survivors guilt after a training injury ended my military career just as fast as it started and caused a permanent injury That most days is noticeable to anyone who watches me walk. When I went home to my wife, everything started to just get bad, she would get furious that i couldn't just "snap out of it" and instead of helping me through things got nasty right back and our marriage just went to shit. I have spent the past few months trying to proveti her that i am not the person i was when i couldnt snap out of it and make thisngs better for us for our sake ad te sake of our daughter. I love my wife, but she just gets nastier and meaner and more aggressive than passive aggressive as days go in. Am i just wastibg my time or am i jushould i just gut it out and see how it goes. Excuse the spelling mistakes, my iphone for some reason will only let me see the firat 4 lines and i have to type blindly after that.

Miles
11-20-2012, 05:46 PM
I say, hang in there. Maybe try marriage counseling ... If it lasts too long maybe u should separate. I know through experience that some people aren't made to b a military spouse. It's hard ! I am a military spouse and my husband has night terrors and flash backs ... It's hard but I give him his quiet time and try not to talk about it unless he brings it up. Hang in there . Count ur blessings.. That's the only thing that gets me through.