cypress_2151
10-21-2012, 01:43 AM
Hey guys,
I'm a 20 year old from Ohio who has come here for a little advice and as a way to get some stuff off of my chest.
About 3 months ago, I got the news that my father had passed away suddenly, and to much shock to my whole family.
Having had struggled with major depression for years at that point, it didn't help, but I had dealt with such loss before
but it was a tremendous blow since I had no real mother in my life for the better part of 6 years due to alcoholism.
I dealt with this pretty well for a couple of months, feeling as though I would get through it and not succumb to it.
However, after two months or so, and some interpersonal drama, my anxiety levels were at a point I had never known.
I woke up one morning after heavy drinking and some previous anger thinking I had alcohol poisoning, or some fatal condition
I couldn't breath, almost fainted, and had a hard time formulating sentences and staying somewhat calm. It was not an easy day.
After waiting in the ER with my neighbor and roommate, my neighbor called a nurse friend saying I was fine and it wasn't anything bad.
I left and I figured it was a one time thing related to the alcohol. Obviously it wasn't since I'm here now. The attacks kept coming
and I ruled it down to panic with a side of hypochondria after some research and some help from a school therapist. I was put on some
medication and it seemed to work, although my life was still in a constant back and forth of feeling somewhat alright to having daily
fits of thinking death was rearing its head at me. I had no parent, the only person I truly loved with all my heart had passed, and I
felt hopeless most of the time. I had no previous problems with anxiety, so this was a shock to me. Things were seeming to get better
with the help of the medication and some reading and self help books and whatnot. Then news came that my mother had succumbed
to her alcoholism and she too had passed. This was not easy to deal with, although it wasn't nearly as bad as my father. Although
it didn't hit me as hard, it was still a reminder of how harsh the world can be. It made me all the more hopeless, although help from
my aunt (dad's sister) was a very nice reminder people were still there to help and care. Since then, my panic has gotten worse
as well as my anxiety, but it seems to have gotten better recently. I haven't gone to the doctor, although I know I should. However
I am afraid of what the results might be. My therapists tell me that my signs must mean its panic and not something else, but I still
worry daily. I feel like I'm burdening people who I tell this news to, so much of it remains to myself and very close friends. I came here
in hopes of maybe some advice or help. I'm sorry for the lengthy post, but that's kind of the bulk of it.
I'm a 20 year old from Ohio who has come here for a little advice and as a way to get some stuff off of my chest.
About 3 months ago, I got the news that my father had passed away suddenly, and to much shock to my whole family.
Having had struggled with major depression for years at that point, it didn't help, but I had dealt with such loss before
but it was a tremendous blow since I had no real mother in my life for the better part of 6 years due to alcoholism.
I dealt with this pretty well for a couple of months, feeling as though I would get through it and not succumb to it.
However, after two months or so, and some interpersonal drama, my anxiety levels were at a point I had never known.
I woke up one morning after heavy drinking and some previous anger thinking I had alcohol poisoning, or some fatal condition
I couldn't breath, almost fainted, and had a hard time formulating sentences and staying somewhat calm. It was not an easy day.
After waiting in the ER with my neighbor and roommate, my neighbor called a nurse friend saying I was fine and it wasn't anything bad.
I left and I figured it was a one time thing related to the alcohol. Obviously it wasn't since I'm here now. The attacks kept coming
and I ruled it down to panic with a side of hypochondria after some research and some help from a school therapist. I was put on some
medication and it seemed to work, although my life was still in a constant back and forth of feeling somewhat alright to having daily
fits of thinking death was rearing its head at me. I had no parent, the only person I truly loved with all my heart had passed, and I
felt hopeless most of the time. I had no previous problems with anxiety, so this was a shock to me. Things were seeming to get better
with the help of the medication and some reading and self help books and whatnot. Then news came that my mother had succumbed
to her alcoholism and she too had passed. This was not easy to deal with, although it wasn't nearly as bad as my father. Although
it didn't hit me as hard, it was still a reminder of how harsh the world can be. It made me all the more hopeless, although help from
my aunt (dad's sister) was a very nice reminder people were still there to help and care. Since then, my panic has gotten worse
as well as my anxiety, but it seems to have gotten better recently. I haven't gone to the doctor, although I know I should. However
I am afraid of what the results might be. My therapists tell me that my signs must mean its panic and not something else, but I still
worry daily. I feel like I'm burdening people who I tell this news to, so much of it remains to myself and very close friends. I came here
in hopes of maybe some advice or help. I'm sorry for the lengthy post, but that's kind of the bulk of it.