Where Do I Go Wrong?

[Bugsy]

Hi

I just can't maintain friendships with people. It's not that I don't want to or that I don't try but I get scared to be me and end up dependent somehow.

This is where I am now and it's breaking me and affecting me at work. I feel lonely and a failure and I don't know how to start to turn it around.

Any advice would be amazing,

G

[ADD]

Hi Bugsy,

Cheer up you have plenty of friends in here :-).

[alankay]

It think that's not uncommon. Alankay

[jessy]

Bugsy I have the same problem , I know that's not advice but at least you know you are not alone !!.

Jessy :-)

[jklivin]

Yea, I dont have any advice either, I was hoping when I opened this thread that someone would provide advice - the only thing I can add is now that I know I have SAD (just recently) I can work on healing and eventually start makeing friends again, dating, and going to social gatherings.