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IloveGod
06-10-2012, 06:09 PM
I'm a 26 year old woman. I use to be able to get along somewhat with people in my high school years. But, the last 6 years have been hard, every setting I'm in especially jobs, it's like the people are just cruel and down right mean. I basically stay in because I can't never seem to get around people who like me. I'm always a loner. I feel like I have anxiety because of how I've been treated. Usually ignored or harassed or snubbed. Does anyone feel they have anxiety because they are treated bad by people?

dazza
06-11-2012, 05:17 AM
Do you know WHY you don't get along with people, generally?

(Be honest... do you recognise anything about your character that doesn't mix well with others?)

The common demoninator here is you I'm affraid... not them (as shit as that sounds). People will respond in a way
that's goverened by how you put yourself across.

Perhaps it's time to change a little? be more neutral (not argumentative or self-riteous), smile more, listen more, be more helpful, etc.
I.e. general improvement of characteristics that are welcomed by folk.