christa22
03-28-2012, 07:15 PM
Hi Beautiful people,
I really need some advise to ease the knots in my tummy from stress. My partner of 5 years who for the last 6 months and i have lived separate due to arguing, i fell with his pregnant with his child and am 11 weeks. We have been "dating" and remained best friends, still love each other and been enjoying each others company for a change instead of fighting. He is supportive enough about the baby but I am prepared to raise it on my own if we dont work out but I pray we do.
Anyway, i find out he went out and was seen talking to the opposite sex on Saturday night, i rang him really defensive & negative saying " how can he do this to me blah blah...i think my hormones took over and i was in a state of shock that he would go out and not tell me. I think i was more jealous about him talking to opposite sex tho. Becaause i was on the defense he replied with "why do i have to justify myself wen we dont live together, we not a proper couple" it hurt so much, i already know this but it hurt to hear it in a negative tone. I have been crying and had anxiety all night & am worried I'm stressing out my baby :(
Am i being toooo paranoid? I really just want the anxiety to fade & go back 2 being the strong me xxx Thank you xxx[/CENTER][/CENTER][/I][/B][/B]
I really need some advise to ease the knots in my tummy from stress. My partner of 5 years who for the last 6 months and i have lived separate due to arguing, i fell with his pregnant with his child and am 11 weeks. We have been "dating" and remained best friends, still love each other and been enjoying each others company for a change instead of fighting. He is supportive enough about the baby but I am prepared to raise it on my own if we dont work out but I pray we do.
Anyway, i find out he went out and was seen talking to the opposite sex on Saturday night, i rang him really defensive & negative saying " how can he do this to me blah blah...i think my hormones took over and i was in a state of shock that he would go out and not tell me. I think i was more jealous about him talking to opposite sex tho. Becaause i was on the defense he replied with "why do i have to justify myself wen we dont live together, we not a proper couple" it hurt so much, i already know this but it hurt to hear it in a negative tone. I have been crying and had anxiety all night & am worried I'm stressing out my baby :(
Am i being toooo paranoid? I really just want the anxiety to fade & go back 2 being the strong me xxx Thank you xxx[/CENTER][/CENTER][/I][/B][/B]